A prominent married businesswoman has taken aim at relationship influencer Solomon Buchi following his recent post advising Nigerian men against marrying “career‑obsessed feminist women who have no family values.”
Buchi praised the likes of Ibukun Awosika, highlighting her 35‑year marriage, career success, and dedication to domestic responsibilities. He warned that men who choose “Twitter feminists” risk a lifetime of regret.
In response, the businesswoman criticized Buchi’s stance, questioning its relevance. She pointed out the hypocrisy of lecturing women on domestic roles while Buchi himself is reportedly unemployed and dependent on his wife.
She argued that such advice undermines women’s self‑worth and could encourage men to lean on their partners financially. “How is Abike expected to thrive in that situation?” she asked, highlighting the unfairness and emotional toll of such messaging.
Her critique sparked a broader conversation online about marriage dynamics, gender roles, and societal expectations. Many users echoed her sentiments, emphasizing that a marriage built on rigid gender norms may limit both partners’ growth.
The debate underscores a growing pushback against influencer culture that perpetuates traditional expectations, calling instead for relationships based on mutual respect, equity, and shared responsibility.